This article talks about some of the centres of active personal/deep-social misogyny online, as opposed to the more directly political misogynist sites like the neofascist Return of Kings. I was actually watching - and quoting from - 9k1 et al during and immediately after the Isla Vista, California murder spree; this article is reasonably accurate. Much of it is actual "joking," but much of that is "joking" with a palpable sense of, "if only."
http://bust.com/feminism/15551-mo-beta-blues.html
http://bust.com/feminism/15551-mo-beta-blues.html