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I'm back home after two weeks away visiting my family in Australia. The arrival on Saturday morning — into freezing, driving rain and dark skies, after an unpleasant, sleepless, turbulent flight — was a bit of a shock to the system, but sleeping for 11 hours last night, plus coffee and pastries for breakfast this morning have done a lot to help. The garden is waterlogged and austere, but although all the fruit trees now have bare branches, astonishingly some of the flowering plants in the raised beds still have blooms on them.

Australia was the usual whirlwind of family visits (my parents and sisters live in two different states, which obviously necessitates a domestic flight to see my dad, stepmother and three of my sisters, plus I have five aunts — two of whom live in a seaside town an hour or so outside Sydney), catching up with friends, and various other bits and pieces. This time around I also took the opportunity to have a bunch of medical appointments that would likely have been difficult or impossible to get in the UK, and it's ridiculous how astonishing and nice it felt to receive medical care in settings where the doctors, nurses and other health professionals don't seem worn down by austerity and chronic understaffing. My Australian GP is the same one attended by my mum, sister #1, one of my aunts, her husband and adult children, and also both my maternal grandparents when they were alive, and the receptionist knows that all of us are related, and told me how much she loved my grandparents, which was sweet.

Other than friends and family, I have two main priorities when it comes to Australian visits: food, and bodies of water, and I made sure I got my fill of both of them. There is nothing that compares to an Australian cafe brunch, Australian coffee is second to none, and I took every opportunity to indulge in both, as well as eating my body weight in mangoes, which are impossible to get in any good quality in the UK. When in Melbourne, Matthias and I went out for a tasting menu at this incredible place for his birthday, and (at the brilliant suggestion of sister #1) mum, sister #1, Matthias and I spent the first weekend of the trip recouperating from jetlag at this beautiful place, which also involved a couple of delicious dinners and breakfasts, and that — plus a couple of other meals out — meant we were extremely well served on the culinary front.

Bodies of water included many swims with Mum at the best outdoor swimming pool, and the ocean in various guises. I have, of course, documented this secular pilgramage with a photoset here, storing up my memory of these home oceans until the next visit.

Returning to Australia is always psychologically odd, and this trip was no different, but I'm glad to have done it, and glad to have been there at this time of the year. And, above all, I feel immensely grateful for the fact that I'm an immigrant able to return to my country of origin when I want to, rather than having to close that door forever and sever that connection. I may have made the choice to live under different skies and beside different bodies of water, but the seas and skies that made me are always a twenty-four-hour flight away, still within reach.

Weekly (ish) check in

Nov. 23rd, 2025 08:24 pm
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How goes the decluttering? Have you shifted anything out of the house? Found something to sort through? Had thoughts on things you can let go of?

Comments open to locals, lurkers, drive by sticky beaks, and anyone I've forgotten to mention.

Congratulations to everyone who has found and/or disposed on any clutter in the last week!

Events of note

Nov. 23rd, 2025 10:35 am
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bullet points for October & November
yeah it's 99% ice hockey )

And that brings me to this week! In which I got a cold on Wednesday and therefore skipped training Wed and Fri and worked from home Thu and Fri. I did shake off the cold enough to play my first game for Huskies last night (in Gosport, against Southampton Spitfires), and later today I'll be playing for Kodiaks 2 against Lee Valley Vampires. I am especially looking forward to this one, I love playing against teams full of friends.

Next weekend Kodiaks 2 have a double-header weekend of home games in Peterborough: Saturday night against Lee Valley Vampires and Sunday night against MK Falcons 2. And that wraps up 2025 for Kodiaks 2: after 6 games in 5 weekends in November, we have zero games in December.

Blue Water Int'l Comic Con

Nov. 23rd, 2025 03:31 am
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[personal profile] kalloway
Comic-con complete!

- when I went to borrow the ancient rattly hand-cart from my father, he told me I could just store it in my garage from now on, which is basically saying it's mine.
- for the first time ever, evening load-in was not delayed by having to wait for the Ghostbusters car getting itself situated.
- more than made table back before load-in had finished.
- arrived a tiny smidge early day-of and had to wait for the Ghostbusters car to get itself situated. (I feel like this set the Universe back on track or something?)
more notes below )

At some point in the coming week I'll get a post up to give away a bunch of stuff I don't want to store/keep hauling around. Now to try to catch up on everything else...
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Posted by chavenet

On the face of it, this is an open–and–shut case: Oswald did it. The only realistic alternative is that Oswald had been carefully framed in advance. Either Oswald did it, or he was set up. Let's examine each of these options in turn.

Related: Don DeLillo's Libra

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Nov. 22nd, 2025 10:13 pm
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The cats ripped a blind off the window. It fell with a mighty crash, just as I was waking up. I had to jerry-rig a curtain. It wasn't much of a loss as they had chewed the end of several slats off already.

I received the jar of grapefruit marmalade that I'd ordered online. I will open on T'giving. I hope it is very tart.

Also, does it seem to you that "large" eggs are not as large as they used to be?

Beyond Good and Evil

Nov. 23rd, 2025 05:28 am
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Posted by storybored

Mysteries of Love, Horror and Art. A long and thoughtful essay on the enigma of Alice Munro, a short story genius who won the Nobel Prize for Literature but who also covered up the abuse of her daughter by her husband, Gerald Fremlin. It discusses how her behavior is reflected, covered up and justified in the art of her stories: "Alice Munro's daughters have also passed into art thanks to her acts of unsparing, unsentimental love. Acts done out of love, Nietzsche once said, stand beyond good and evil. If this is what art amounts to, we should be grateful to Alice Munro for reminding us to be properly frightened of it."

"If Fremlin's behavior was normal at least from the perspective of criminal psychopathology, Munro's is harder to fathom. Her decision to allow herself to become practically and emotionally dependent on an eccentric pedophile was strange enough even before he abused her daughter. No doubt she sincerely loved him, but surely a large part of why she remained in this bizarre domestic situation was because it created the conditions that she needed in order to write, to produce the art that was (as she told an interviewer) "the final thing" in her life. To use Bea Doud's language from "Vandals," Munro's was a greater or at least a far stranger insanity than Fremlin's, and her family lived inside of it." ----- "If Munro thought, as she told Barbara Frum, that "the springs of creativity and sex are all together," and her understanding of sexuality is so tightly connected to domination and even to brutality, is her fiction, then, a celebration of the cruelty of the erotic? This would not be quite correct, because she also makes space in it for that other aspect of "the dark side of human nature," "the impulses that make us religious." Munro believes that to be human is necessarily to seek to make sense of the seemingly incomprehensible brutality of nature, including the brutality of our erotic natures. This need to tame by explanation is for her the shared origin of both religion and poetry, perhaps even of language."
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Hello! I hope things are going well for you!! I can’t believe that the end of the year is closing in… I got to start thinking about my resolutions for next year…!

This also means that I’ve started to use a new planner! My last one had an August (2024) start and goes until the end of this year, which means I’m finally able to move away from ones that end during the summer! Yay!



On a completely unrelated note, I’ve been listening to Yggdrasil Radio again lately and bumping into a lot of new fun songs as well as a couple of old favorites!

The little eye catches are also quite charming. Although I will say that every now and then my browser will have trouble re-loading the site (after pausing it) and I get to witness the words weirdest mashup of genres as the current song clips in and out of a previous song. :P Overall, it’s been a fun time! I forgot how neat it was to find new songs this way!

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Nov. 22nd, 2025 10:37 pm
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Posted by clavdivs

In Hollywood, Glenn Ford is considered the or one of the fastest gunslingers.

But some say Sammy Davis Jr. was fast(er) and excelled at gunspinning and other tricks.

Jerry Lewis weighs in with some demonstration.
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November Anime PTW 2

Nov. 22nd, 2025 04:41 pm
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Used my anime TBR boardgame.

I finished 5/6 for my last challenge. Honestly not my favorite challenge, plus when I get a certain amount of exhausted I don't feel like watching anything so that didn't help. I'm hoping for a small list this time or maybe there will be some anime that are easier on me.

Avatar:

Sakura from Wind Breaker
Skill:
Re-draw a prompt once


Roll #1:

An 8, PTW tile. #572 and that iss Trickster: Edogawa Ranpo "Shounen Tanteidan" wow I remember nothing about this but I can see why I added it.

Roll #2:

A 6 aand now the CW tile. #20 which is more Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood.

Roll #3:

A, prompt: reincarnated into another world. Nothing on my CW list for that and I don't want to start something else new, so using skill. New prompt: popular anime. Haikyuu!! ,hopefully I'll be in the mood for it (aka more awake) by the end to watch it.

Roll #4:

An 8, intimidates you. *spends several minute hemming and hawing about what exactly that means* Ya know what, fine, I'll do Mawaru Penguindrum. I don't know how much I'll remember but I refuse to backtrack because I'd probably DNF it due to that character I hate. I may DNF anyway but hey, let's find out at least. 🤷

Roll #5:

A 6, prompt: mystery element. More Delico's Nursery then.

Roll #6:

An 8 and the end. Reward: going to be predictable and go with Dr: Stone again because it never fails to cheer me up.

Most looking forward to: Dr. Stone of course
Least looking forward to: Mawaru Penguindrum

~Anime PTW List~


[Mystery] Trickster: Edogawa Ranpo "Shounen Tanteidan"
[Action/Drama] Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood
[Sports] Haikyuu!!
[Psychological Drama/Mystery] Mawaru Penguindrum
[Fantasy/Mystery] Delico's Nursery
[Sci-Fi/Adventure] Dr. Stone

A New Jewish Plotline

Nov. 22nd, 2025 09:39 pm
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Posted by sickos haha yes dot jpg

In the wake of Gaza, should Jewish American writers be tackling different stories? Deep dive into American Jewish literature and its ambivalence about the tensions between stories of power and persecution.

Anime Check-in: Dr. Stone S4P2E4-5

Nov. 22nd, 2025 03:35 pm
bluapapilio: senkuu and gen from dr. stone (drs sengen3)
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Episode 4:


SO CUTE 😊

Lol, the watch lady was so nonchalant about being revived.

"Everyone else we've woken up has had a freakish mental attitude."

Yeah but you dressed the lady before reviving her, not poor Joel...

Lmao at Joel not being able to resist using the Medusa.

Poor Armadillo. T_T After getting into The Vampire Dies in No Time especially, thinking of John being eaten is too sad.

I love the chibi of them all on their bikes!

Episode 5: The 'who killed who' and relationship chart hahah, blew Chelsea's mind. And the high five, cute!

Kinda funny to be worrying about Hyouga this late;;

Aw, Tsukasa's expression while eating was so cute. :') He honestly is pretty darn cute when he's being silly.

I am once again overcome with love for these guys. I hope more people can look past Boichi's way of drawing women sometimes to see the amazing writing by Inagaki and the otherwise great art. ❤️️

November Anime Wrap-Up

Nov. 22nd, 2025 03:26 pm
bluapapilio: Idia from Twisted Wonderland (Default)
[personal profile] bluapapilio
Watched ep. 1-2 of Akagami no Shirayuki-hime, it's okay so far.

Watched ep. 1 of Gnosia, it's so intense/suspenseful!! Might have to take it slow.

Watched ep. 1-2 of Magic Kaito.

Watched Dr. Stone S4P2E1-5!! &

I'm putting IDOLiSH7 on hold, I can't stand the feeling of not remembering what's going on when I wait too long to get back to something, so I'll just go to the game for a while and get back to the anime again someday.

Watched 1 episode of Durarara!!.

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Nov. 22nd, 2025 09:55 pm
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An exciting update since my last post: I broke my ankle! *facepalm*

anatomy of a work accident )

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