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Date: 2010-02-08 09:55 pm (UTC)You don't get people taking your side in a way that matters by guilting them into it by yelling privilege at them or telling them how they have a choice and the other group doesn't.
They have to buy into it, body & soul, and believe it to be true. Then they run with it.
"Privilege" is one of the words that has driven me out of more dialogues with groups I am in support of, because I have no interest in being told about how goddamned privileged I am by those who are not. since the Hierarchy of Privilege Finger Pointing can only go from the disempowered towards the empowered.
Do I think 'privilege' exists? abso-fucking-lutely.
Do I think it gets trotted out instead of actual reasoned conversation more often than not? You bet.
"If you cared, you'd do this."
Gosh, then I guess every time I don't meet your external standard of behavior, it demonstrates that I don't honestly care. At some point, that leads to people genuinely not caring anymore. If you're going to be hanged as a thief for stealing a loaf of bread or for robbing the treasury, why not at least steal enough to live well until you get caught?