Well, this was weird
Dec. 7th, 2025 10:18 pmRecent Reading: Brahma's Dream
Dec. 7th, 2025 04:17 pmThis is one of those middle-of-the-road books that was neither amazingly good nor offensively bad, and therefore I struggle to come up with much to say about it. That makes it sound bad, but it isn't--I enjoyed my time with it. I thought Ghatage did a good job with exploring life on the precipice of great political change, although the history and politics of 1940s India is more backdrop to the family drama than central to the story. I liked Mohini and her family; because the nature of her illness necessitates a lot of rest and down time, Mohini is naturally a thoughtful child, as her thoughts are sometimes all she has to amuse herself. However, she never crosses the line into being precocious, which was a relief.
Neither did I feel like the book leaned too hard on Mohini's illness to elicit sentimentality from the reader. Obviously, an illness like hers is the biggest influence on her life, and on the lives of her immediate family, and there are many moments you sympathize with her because she can't just be a child the way she wants to be, but I didn't feel like Ghatage was plucking heartstrings just for the sake of it.
Reading the relationships between Mohini and her family was heartwarming, especially with her grandfather, who takes great joy in Mohini's intellect and is often there to discuss the import of various societal events with her.
Ghatage's descriptive writing really brings to life the India of the time, with the colors, smells, sounds, and sights that are a part of Mohini's every day.
It reminded me of another book I read about a significant event in Indian history (the separation of India and Pakistan) told through the perspective of a young ill girl, Cracking India.
On the whole, this was a sweet, heartfelt book. It's not heavy on plot, but if you enjoy watching the story of a family unfold and the little dramas that play out, it's enjoyable.
"mom's friend a long time ago."
Dec. 7th, 2025 10:53 pmMom and Dad told me tonight about two friends of my brother's, and one of them's mom who was the school nurse at the time so knows all of us as well as being the mom of his friend, who she's run into lately who told her they always remember Chris at this time of year.
Two of the three apparently said especially that it was twenty years this year, and my mom was surprised that they remembered that specifically. But I have a couple friends about my age who had schoolfriends die when they were in school or soon after, and they certainly remember the person and how long it's been. We are lucky enough to live in an age when child/young person death is rare enough to stand out.
The school nurse mom even told my mom about how her daughter's kids know about him because the daughter has a Christmas ornament with a photo of my brother on it which my parents had made and handed out to people the Christmas after (I got one too, in my terrible flat in West Didsbury, but I never really wanted it and lost it along the way). The kids know about all the ornaments on their tree so they know this one is for "Mom's friend who died a long time ago." I love that.
On a kinda rough day, before two days in London for work that I'm dreading, this was a nice moment.
Their mom and my brother had been friends since kindergarten, when she was one of the girls who called him Kissyfur after a cartoon of that time, and who he used to entertain by doing stuff like pretending not to notice when the girls put snow in his hat and he put it on anyway so they could all laugh.
She sang at his funeral, which is such a gift to be able to offer a peer, when you're only twenty-one.
Being Neighborly (part 1 of 1, complete)
Dec. 7th, 2025 04:12 pmBy Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 1 of 1, complete
Word count (story only): 1167
:: Nora is watching the most annoying cat in the neighborhood, when she notices something odd about his behavior. Surprisingly, the dyspeptic feline actually accepts her help. Written for the December 2025 prompt call, from a new visitor,
The white cat picked carefully among the least-snowy areas of the front yard, sniffing delicately at the sagging, bedraggled plants which hung limp and brown over the edge of the knee-high planter in front of Nora’s house. Nora eyed the battleship gray sky above the dingy islands of mounded snow and the dull, cold concrete that connected it all into a path to bigger roads all around the little neighborhood surrounded by dense city.
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a light rail journey to exotic Federal Way, WA
Dec. 7th, 2025 09:06 amBut what if the stores were bigger and the place looked less seedy, as I've heard Aurora did fifty or sixty years ago? What you would have then is Federal Way, WA, about eight miles south of SEA airport, which is in turn well south of Seattle.
Sure, it isn't as soul-crushing as Aurora, but why even go there*? Because as of yesterday it's the end of the line for Sound Transit light rail's 1 line! That's right, three bucks and an hour get you from Seattle's U District all the way to Federal Way.
Assuming, of course, that some fool driving on Rainier Ave., the longer of the two at-grade sections of the 1-line, doesn't get in a wreck. I spent half an hour at Sodo looking around at my fellow passengers, texting the Tickler to let them know I'd be late for dinner, and wondering what was going on later at the Monkey Loft a few blocks away. Those at-grade sections, by the way, are the reason we can't automate our light rail as Vancouver did theirs. If I were Imperatrix Mundi they'd be elevated or, better, in cut-and-cover tunnels, and the NIMBYs would get mulched.
But! Onward and southward eventually to three new stations: Kent/Des Moines**, which is one block from Highline College. College kids are transit users, so the location of that station is absolutely correct. The next station is Star Lake; I hadn't known Star Lake existed until I read about the new stations. I guess they had to put a station somewhere.
And then Federal Way, where they put the station on the western edge of an agglomeration of big box stores and strip malls. The urbanist in me wishes they'd put it in the middle, but Sound Transit built a parking garage for the station. I can think of two reasons for this: we can expect Federal Way to be the end of the line for a long time, and it's so damn sprawly out there that suburbanites are justified in clinging to their cars for the last few miles. The sensible place for a parking garage is in a less crowded spot right next to I-5, right where it is.
Indeed, even before this latest extension, much of the 1 line's route at the northern and southern ends hugged I-5. It was probably the easiest place to get the rights of way; I know that's why there's no light rail on Aurora.
Is there new housing in Federal Way within walking distance of the station? Yup. Sanity comes to the suburbs, bit by bit.
How long did it take the Tickler to drive from their place in Tacoma to pick me up? Twenty-two minutes, baby. The drive from their place to mine is nearly ninety minutes in early evening traffic.
But! What's actually in Federal Way? Strip malls! Including one about fifteen blocks from the train station where nearly every business is Korean, including about half a dozen restaurants. The Tickler had done their homework and selected one for us named Moobongri. Not fancy, and not barbecue***, with Korean balads on the TV, but all about the tasty noodle soups. I wasn't brave enough to order the pork blood sausage, but the Tickler was. It's a bit chewy, so they ended up eating extra banchan. Would nom again, or would nom again at any of the gazillion neighboring restaurants. Ironically, parking is a bit tight there, so carpool.
But that was the early evening. What about the rest of the evening? I ended up taking the train to the bus to Ballard, where I shook my booty to a lady DJ named Leira and Riz Rollins. Lovely choonz but I went home at midnight because I'd woken up early and my third cup of caffeine was wearing off.
Fun fact: this has been a booze-free weekend by accident. I admit to feeling a lot perkier than I usually do on Sunday morning.
*Ms. Zappy's office was there. That's the only reason I'm familiar with the place.
**I had a friend who lived in Des Moines long ago. Pity she isn't still in this area.
***Korean barbecue really calls for a party of at least four. It's big food.
Done Since 2025-11-30
Dec. 7th, 2025 05:51 pmThere were some real lows this week -- possibly having less to do with Leslie Fish's death (see Sunday) than with my realization on Tuesday that I was a month away from Colleen's and my 50th anniversary. Possibly also including communicating with my healthcare providers, which required an email to my GP's clinic (also on Tuesday) and a phone call to my oncologist's office on Friday. I prefer using a website, but both websides and the app are broken in various ways.
And Tuesday evening there was a huge wave of something negative, but I've no idea what or why.
However, I got the things done. And there were also a couple of unexpected highs, notably Thursday afternoon when somebody from the family of previous occupants came over to get a misdirected package. And I was able to hand them a nearly-full grocery bag of stuff that had accumulated over the last year, and which I had failed to find the last couple of times I had a chance. As I noted afterwards, it apparently doesn't take much to lift my spirits for a few moments.
But four walks, and four (admittedly short) guitar sessions. I'll take it. And today is my daughter's 7th anniversary! (I had forgotten, but I'd gotten a DM Friday night to say that they needed money because their car had died. Good timing.)
Linkies! Raccoon goes on drunken rampage in Virginia liquor store and passes out on bathroom floor. Dumuzi's Dream - world's first film in ancient Sumerian. (With subtitles, of course.)
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Space Skimmer by David Gerrold
Dec. 7th, 2025 08:51 am
Who killed the empire? More importantly, what does it take to get men to process their emotions?
Space Skimmer by David Gerrold
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Dec. 9th, 2025 09:53 pmAnd that's not the most alarming thing about it.
Strained Resources (part 2 of 2, complete)
Dec. 6th, 2025 05:02 pmBy Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 2 of 2, complete
Word count (story only): 1504
[Sat, Dec 17, 2016]
:: A week before Channukah, Genna is settling back into LaPlace when a new neighbor arrives to ask if they have any candles to spare for the menorah. Genna offers to teach them how to dip their own. Part of the Strange Family series, in the Polychrome Heroics universe. This story was written for the December 2025 event, from a suggestion made by
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Elie’s eyebrows climbed to her hairline as Genna began removing random wax candles from a basket about the size of an apple box, and arranging them in clusters on the table draped with a blotchy natural canvas. As she sorted the candles by color, she put aside the ones with more than two colors, shaking her head at several of the ugly ones which had never been threatened by an unlit match, despite their appearance. “Why aren’t you using those?”
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recovery restriction
Dec. 6th, 2025 12:23 pmThey'll give me a special headband so I can wear my glasses. I'm OK with that. Temporarily looking funky is something I don't mind much.
Oh by the way, they answered my mail about recovery on a Saturday. It so wasn't urgent. They're hardcore.
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Dec. 6th, 2025 08:05 pm
angelofthenorth gave me my birthday presents today! I thanked her and said I was surprised because it's not my birthday yet. But V and I always have a joint party - after their birthday and before mine - and that's today.
She sensibly pointed out that they won't see me for my birthday, as I'll be off doing family xmas things by then.
So, yeah, why not, today's my birthday.
yin and yang, early December edition
Dec. 6th, 2025 07:13 amGood: ...after having fallen asleep around 2030.
Bad: not mustering the energy to go out last night...
Good: ...while it's so windy out that power outages were likely.
Bad: having a long to-do list...
Good: ...that I'm being organized and proactive about and has FFS at the end of it.
Oh, and I have plans for later today for which there is no down side. Consider that a teaser.
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Dec. 6th, 2025 09:18 am
Geneviève Bergeron (born 1968; aged 21), civil engineering student
Hélène Colgan (born 1966; aged 23), mechanical engineering student
Nathalie Croteau (born 1966; aged 23), mechanical engineering student
Barbara Daigneault (born 1967; aged 22), mechanical engineering student
Anne-Marie Edward (born 1968; aged 21), chemical engineering student
Maud Haviernick (born 1960; aged 29), materials engineering student
Maryse Laganière (born 1964; aged 25), budget clerk in the École Polytechnique's finance department
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Anne-Marie Lemay (born 1967; aged 22), mechanical engineering student
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Barbara Klucznik-Widajewicz (born 1958; aged 31), nursing student